Some social networks can form groups where people meet if they have the same taste. In a group of those in favor of a film, the majority of those present mentioned the death of one of the most beloved characters. I started reading the comments on this debate and I discovered that of a girl about 3 years old who wrote that she was very sad (the text reflected her feelings) because of several events in this movie. In my years, I understand that during puberty we tend to suffer for things that do not make sense, and this event was exactly that. It seemed fair to me to give a mature opinion on the situation and offer some comfort. But in the middle of such a drama, I took mine not to play the game and feel sorry for his pain. The response was aggressive, but I was not surprised. Its not that I do not understand that so
meone can suffer for things like that; from my point of view, it makes no sense to feel pain for something like a movie Ive never been sorry for myself or anyone, so if anyone one suffers, my answer is to open their eyes so they can see reality, find comfort and move on. This attitude is not something I owe to my maturity. I must admit that it was some difficult events in my childhood and adolescence that motivated this attitude. I learned to give each event of life its importance and its place.
Emotional maturity has nothing to do with age. I know people who, although adults, are not ripe in their emotions. An emotionally mature person has learned through life events and has developed the ability to understand the pain of others (empathy) and theirs, to control themselves and to take responsibility for their actions.